Spotlight Review: JOE NUTHIN’S GUIDE TO LIFE by Helen Fisher

From the publisher:

A thoroughly uplifting novel about a neurodivergent young man who unexpectedly builds a community and saves a friend in need by following—in a way only he can—his mother’s words of wisdom.

Joe-Nathan likes the two parts of his name separate, just like dinner and dessert. Mean Charlie at work sometimes calls him Joe-Nuthin. But Joe is far from nothing. Joe is a good friend, good at his job, good at making things and at following rules, and he is learning how to do lots of things by himself.

Joe’s mother knows there are a million things he isn’t yet prepared for. While she helps to guide him every day, she is also writing notebooks of advice for Joe, of all the things she hasn’t yet told him about life and things he might forget.

By following her advice, Joe’s life is about to be more of a surprise than he expects. Because he’s about to learn that remarkable things can happen when you leave your comfort zone, and that you can do even the hardest things with a little help from your friends.

“Fisher portrays Joe with tenderness and grace, highlighting his genuine challenges, frustrations, and sparks of joy… Fisher’s latest is an utter delight.” ― Booklist

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Joe-Nathan Clarke is a 23-year-old neurodivergent man who lives with his mother. He has a job at The Compass Store, stocking shelves. He’s been there for five years and has made some friends among the staff. Joe-Nathan also has OCD, and he has crafted routines that allow him to navigate both work and home life successfully. His mother, Janet, is an older mom, and he has lost his father. Janet emerges as a thoughtful guide, creating a detailed notebook filled with practical advice to prepare him for eventual independence, with things like recipes, how to light the gas stove, basic home repairs, etc. He refers to the blue notebook regularly, and later on, finds another notebook filled with more esoteric advice.

While he has built meaningful relationships with most colleagues, some still mock him—particularly “Mean Charlie,” who dubbed him “Joe-Nuthin.” Janet has always told Joe-Nathan that he doesn’t have a mean bone in his body, and he desperately wants Charlie to see that. Despite warnings from others who have written Charlie off as irredeemable, Joe-Nathan remains determined to befriend this sullen coworker, setting himself on a dangerous path that threatens more than just his own well-being.

Told primarily through Joe-Nathan’s perspective, the narrative reveals a refreshingly simple logic to his thinking that feels both endearing and hopeful. Unlike most people who develop protective cynicism through life’s challenges, Joe-Nathan approaches the world without layers of defensive armor. This openness proves both refreshing and occasionally unwise in difficult situations.

The characterization of Joe-Nathan impressed me most, as his voice maintains dignity without falling into parody. The author skillfully distinguishes secondary characters through their unique voices, demonstrating exceptional storytelling abilities that bring each person to life authentically.

This charming story exceeded my expectations by delivering something profound yet accessible. While those around Joe-Nathan work diligently to prepare him for adult realities, he becomes the one teaching life lessons to everyone in his orbit. He takes their guidance seriously but isn’t afraid to challenge their perceptions when they conflict with his own moral compass.

By refusing to abandon Charlie, Joe-Nathan forces others to confront their hardened assumptions and discover hidden depths in someone they had dismissed. The result is a beautiful message delivered through a young man who defies conventional definitions of “normal” and proves that wisdom often comes from the most unexpected sources.

This book was unputdownable. I loved these characters and didn’t want to leave them. This is sure to make my best books of the year list – don’t miss it!

6/2025 Stacy Alesi, AKA the BookBitch

JOE NUTHIN’S GUIDE TO LIFE by Helen Fisher. Gallery Books (May 28, 2024). ISBN: 978-1982142704. 416p.

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